The Lover Team
5 Reasons Why Scheduled Sex is Awesome
Scheduling sex creates a built-in way to prioritize pleasure and an erotic connection in a relationship. Here are 5 reason why it's awesome.
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Dr. Britney Blair
Clinical Psychologist
Clinical Psychologist
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Clinical Psychologist
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Clinical Psychologist
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Clinical Psychologist
The Lover Team
Dec 19, 20214 min
The Most Common Causes of Delayed Ejaculation and What You Can Do to Treat It
While treatment can vary depending on what’s causing your problem, here are some of the most common causes, along with some tips for how to
The Lover Team
Dec 16, 20213 min
What's the Connection Between Libido and Hormones?
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have an insatiable sex drive, and others can go without sex for weeks, or even months?
The Lover Team
Dec 12, 20214 min
6 Tips to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder." But what happens when your relationship already involves built-in time apart?
The Lover Team
Dec 8, 20213 min
Want to Have a Better Orgasm? Try Breath Work
Breath work can help you to relax into your experience and allow your body to take over, leading to deeper feelings of pleasure.
The Lover Team
Dec 4, 20214 min
Dating Someone With A Different Libido: Do's and Don't's
Do you feel as if you're constantly initiating sex without reciprocation? What if you want something your partner isn’t prepared to give?
The Lover Team
Nov 20, 20213 min
The G-spot, Explained
Is the G-spot real, or a mythological being? Get to know the history of this mysterious zone, the real truth about it, and how to find it.
The Lover Team
Nov 17, 20213 min
Body Positivity: Having Sex with Confidence
Your body image has a lasting impact on how you move through the world — and the bedroom.
The Lover Team
Nov 13, 20213 min
Mindfulness: The Secret to Better Sex
No matter how you find yourself on autopilot or distracted during sex, practicing mindfulness can revolutionize your sex life. Here's how.
The Lover Team
Nov 6, 20212 min
How to Use Porn Ethically
What does ethical porn use look like today? The answer is in two parts: how you access porn, and how you use it.
The Lover Team
Nov 3, 20214 min
Timeline of Sex Toys
Sometimes it seems like sex toys were invented in 2002. In fact, they’ve been around for millennia. From carved dildos decorating the...
The Lover Team
Oct 15, 20212 min
When Sex is Goal-Oriented, Does Anyone Win?
Focusing too much on a "goal" takes us out of the physical experience and our bodies, and keeps our heads in an unsexy space.
The Lover Team
Oct 11, 20212 min
Ask Dr. Blair | How Do I Ask My Girlfriend to Try Anal, on Me?
Let's get one thing out of the way: Anyone with an anus can have (and really enjoy!!) anal sex. So, that includes you!
The Lover Team
Oct 9, 20212 min
Your Oral Sex Questions, Answered
So you've never tried oral before, or you're curious to know more. Here are the basics to start on the right foot.
The Lover Team
Oct 7, 20211 min
Ask Dr. Blair | How Do I Stop a Mental Block During Sex?
Mental blocks are common, and they happen to all of us— in and out of the bedroom! Here's Dr. Blair's tip on how to stop them.
The Lover Team
Sep 28, 20211 min
Ask Dr. Blair | My Husband Never Wants to Have Sex. What Should I Do?
If your husband never wants to have sex, the issue may be potential incompatibility.
The Lover Team
Sep 27, 20213 min
The Lover App is Now FDA-Approved
We’re so excited to announce that Lover is the first sex therapy app to join the FDA’s Safer Technologies Program!
The Lover Team
Sep 24, 20211 min
Ask Dr. Blair | What should I do if Viagra and Cialis Don't Give Me an Erection for Intercourse?
Viagra and Cialis or not magic pills, unfortunately! The first step is to check in with your physician, but here's what you can do next.
The Lover Team
Sep 18, 20211 min
Ask Dr. Blair | How Can I Get My Pregnant Wife to Have Sex with me?
It depends why, and what state of pregnancy your wife is in, but it starts with a conversation and compassion.
The Lover Team
Sep 13, 20211 min
Ask Dr. Blair | How Do I Reduce My Refractory Period?
If you can take the pressure and focus off of your refractory period and your penis, you may enjoy a wider range of pleasurable activities.
The Lover Team
Sep 3, 20214 min
Answering Popular Questions on Low Testosterone
What is low testosterone? How to arouse a man with low testosterone? In this post, we answer the popular questions about low testosterone...
The Lover Team
Sep 1, 20212 min
Exercise To Get You Better Between The Sheets
Exercise is essential for the mind, body and immune system. So if sex gets the heart rate up, does it also count as exercise? The jury is...
The Lover Team
Aug 24, 20214 min
Too Stressed for Sex? Here’s Why to Have It Anyway
Sex is a proven stress-reducer, but what if you're feeling too stressed to have sex? Here are a few ways to fix this cycle.
The Lover Team
Aug 14, 20213 min
How to Overcome Performance Anxiety and Erectile Dysfunction
Performance anxiety is totally normal, and there are a few common culprits behind it. Here's what you can do about them.